The Man Behind the Scenes

You never know how the other kids will feel when one is singled out for a special day.  For example, today was our toddler's special day alone with Mommy to potty train.  I took the other two with me on some errands, to have some fun, and to have lunch together.  We were back by nap time.  Then, during the afternoon, my wife had to continue focusing on our toddler, while the rest of us figured out other things to do.  Amazingly, our four-year old did not complain that he did not get much of his mother's attention or special treats and snacks that were being lavished upon our daughter whenever she had a training success.  In fact, he cheered on his little sister's potty training successes.  I thought I'd reward him by taking his chore of setting the table.  After dinner, I cleared most of the table and brought the dirty dishes into the kitchen.  Suddenly, some cups I had missed are placed on the counter beside me, and I turn to see my son walk out of the kitchen.  Nobody asked him to help.  Then, at bedtime, he asked if I could bring him his bathrobe, but was sure to tell me that he had some of Mommy's socks in the pockets that needed to go back in her drawer.  As tired as he was, he wanted to make sure Mommy got her socks back.  He doesn't realize how thoughtful he has been throughout the day.  In fact, he never expected anyone to notice his kind little acts.  He somehow seemed content today just being the man behind the scenes.  Where do kids like these come from?  We feel very blessed to have him sent to us.