Diaper Change Rebellion

This is the third time we have a child old enough to realize, "I don't like getting a diaper change." Now, again, we have to deal with the arched back, the screaming like her arm got cut off, the twisting, tears, and snot, not to mention trying to keep the "mess" in the diaper. The only problem is, this baby is worse than the first two put together. Although it is hard, I just can't wait for her to calm down anymore because it's not going to happen. So, although I'm only changing her diaper, I sometimes feel like I'm torturing her.