Son and Confidant

This is the part of fatherhood I always looked forward to. I just didn't think it would happen at the young age of four. But my four-year old has somehow developed such maturity and wisdom that I catch myself discussing the realities of work and fatherhood with him. He responds by saying, "Sometimes being a daddy is tough, huh?" or asks thoughtful and specific questions about my experiences. He also shares his own experiences and talks through things so well. He is a natural problem solver, sensitive to the needs of others, incredibly intelligent, and keenly discerning. He also shares spiritual insights and frequently helps me, unwittingly, to keep an eternal perspective. If this is what he is like when he is four, I see him as a valuable leader and counselor in my life as well as in everything he pursues. He has become more than a son and playmate. He is a friend and confidant.